반려견 훈련사 커리어와 소셜 미디어: @키코폽의 에밀리 랄햄과의 대화

So yeah, I love sea turtles by the way. Yeah. So then I went into rehabilitating rescued wildlife. And then on the other side was the shelter and they were hiring. So I went and I started working at the shelter next to the animal rehab. And then that is where I met my mentor at a different, I was at the closed facility. So I actually got a great education because all the dogs there were either sick or unadoptable, meaning they hadn't passed the BA test yet, or that they'd failed it. So I got to learn about all the diseases. And basically after being in that environment, I realized I wanted to learn more. So, you know, like going into a kennel of like the hurricane Katrina dogs, and there's like a Rottweiler in a small cage that's been in there for months because they had heartworm and they hadn't had their tests yet. And I go in and then the Rottweiler won't let me leave. So, you know, I've cleaned everything out and now it's time to leave. And then the dogs pin me like against the door that opens inwards. And I'm like, there's gotta be, there's gotta be something that I could do. You know, I think maybe that was one of the experiences that led me to, I really want to learn about training these dogs rather than caring for them and trying to make their life bearable and And would you recommend that for young people who want to learn more about dog training to find a shelter? Definitely. Like I was lucky enough that my mentor was at the public facility and the manager of behavior and training had learned from Ted Turner. So it was all run based on the information of Ted Turner. Everyone was using harnesses. And, and so I was in this little bubble of positive reinforcement. So I was like, this is how all shelters are run and all classes are run. And then when I went to, you know, YouTube, I was like, Whoa, people need to learn about it. I think that the key is finding a mentor that you trust and that want to learn from. Like if you go to a mentor and you have like feelings like of uncomfortability, like nowadays you can learn from online, you can research trainers that you like and find these online mentorships and then go and volunteer at rescues rather than. Yeah. Great idea. That's what I said. Especially because a lot of people have a breed that they love, right. That they would love to work with. And so there's a lot of rescues that are looking like for foster homes. You could do a training right in your own home with a rescue and every dog you train, you get to be a better trainer. And even if you don't want to be a trainer, you just, you know, want to A, practice or B,

help out a rescue. I think that's a great thing for sure. Do you have any regrets at going on social media so young? Because you're putting yourself in the fishbowl of the public. I think that, I don't know where I learned it, but right from the start, maybe it's because I am a little bit socially anxious or I really like to, you know, make sure that I I'm presenting myself in a way that it won't come back to bite me in the butt. So like everything that I say online and in a video, when I watch through a video or I'm talking online, I think to myself, can someone turn this around and use it against me? Or even like, can they take that sentence out of this paragraph and then use that and go, ha ha, then you said this. And so like, I'm constantly like thinking about how other people's behavior works. Also presenting my work in a way where I feel like it's a choice. And there was a time in the past where I made a couple of videos of don't train this way. Right. Don't do this to your dog. And those were the videos that people got really, really angry and frustrated me. And I actually deleted them. You know, it's what's right or wrong for you. And so you have a membership on your YouTube page that people get extra videos from that. Now, is there any coaching or is it just extra video that you give? It's just an extra video. That's more based for like dog trainers or people who want like more advanced material. So like I might solve a behavior with my dog or something like that, rather than something on YouTube where people just want the steps and not too much. What happens if this happened? What happens if that happens? I think. What is the best piece of advice you could give to these young people that are training on TikTok, for example, or where they're getting a lot of people watching? Yeah. I think my tip is whenever you say something that you don't know if it's true or if it's your opinion, you say before you say it, in my opinion, and I'll say in my honest opinion, I believe this and there's no scientific evidence, but this is what I believe. And I'll say that just so they get the disclaimer that, you know, rather than you should always go through the door first, you know, because then the dog will learn, you know, and the dog will think, or, you know, if I talk about how the dog is thinking, I say, in my opinion, I believe the dog might be thinking or feeling this way rather than- That is a great piece of advice. Or even to say, this is how I do it, right? Or this is what works for my dogs, but to make blanket statements, like dog training is evolving.

And the way we all do things right now, 20 years from now, like there'll be pieces of it that you can see, but it will be so different. And so the absolutes are going to be a point of judgment, aren't they? Yeah. So who's influenced your training the most? It depends. I kind of like, when I started training, I got lots of different things from different places. So the mentor that you talked about at the Humane Society wasn't into luring and wasn't into trick training, but really into like the dog's emotional state and arousal and how we can change that using food. Like you can build arousal and lower arousal with food and that blew my mind. That's awesome. But then I saw, I went on YouTube and I saw Mary Ray with her dog. And then I saw, you used luring and then I was like, I'm going to do it. I'm going to try it. I'm going to try it. And I was amazed and everyone was like, you can't lure, you can't lure. And I was like, I don't care. I think those are my two major influences right at the beginning. I like to tell people that Mary Ray, she was here teaching and I love training tricks. And that's, and I had no interest in doing freestyle because I didn't want to dress up and dance. I didn't see that as part of me, but I was doing some tricks with my border collie and my Jack Russell's and I had them weaving backwards between my legs. And she's like, wait, what are you doing? And how did you teach that? And so I'm the one that taught Mary Ray how to teach her dogs to weave backwards between legs. I didn't know it was a thing. It was just, yeah, probably I was getting something wrong and said, Hey, this is kind of cool. Let's do it this way. It's amazing. Listen, Emily, I appreciate that you came on here today. I know that you do not like speaking in public, but you are amazing at it. You've got so many great things to share and inspire young people and people who are struggling with their dog training. So I encourage you to, you know, maybe come back and chat with me again, but definitely do more of it because you're a great inspiration. Thank you. So thank you for being here. Swagger says, thank you for being here too, Emily. Wow. I can't imagine what behavior he's reading off of you. I keep trying. I think it's a tone in my voice when I start thanking or wrapping up, there's something that he's ready. He's ready to say goodbye to. Dogs are amazing, aren't they? If we could pick up patterns of reinforcement the way they could. Yeah. I probably would eat way too many chocolate chip cookies. That's for sure. Thank you, Emily. Thank you, Swagger.