좌절한 강아지, 좌절한 인간! 강아지 양육에서 성공을 거두기 위한 전략 #286

we want, the connection we crave, in my opinion, has to include cooperation, building confidence, and creating that calm so that your life can go on enriched with having a puppy in your house and the puppy is engaged and enriched and loving their life. If you're frustrated, your puppy's frustrated. So, come on, let's move forward with this. How does that begin? So, there's a number of things. Obviously, priority number one is we have to get that puppy potty trained. So, let's hope you're off to a great start. If not, check that puppy playlist. So, let's assume your potty training is well on the way. Now, if we have a puppy that gets on the couch or the furniture and we don't want them on the couch or the furniture, then that's the first tell for me that you're giving that puppy way too much freedom. So, refer to podcast episode number 166 where I talk about what life is like for me when I have a puppy, how I have a training den. If you refer to episode number 267, I share with you how to set up your own training den. Training den can be a small area of a room in your house where you go to to train that puppy and that puppy knows this is where I train. If you don't have any way of creating a barrier so that you can have a way that you can train inside a small area of a room, your training den can be a bathroom. So, a small area where your puppy knows this is fun time. Good things happen here. Ultimately, what we want is rehearsals of success. Now, if you're listening to this and you're planning on training your puppy for sports, rehearsals of success is what you ultimately want when you get into the ring. My puppy is 15 months old now. And just today I was thinking, you know what? Today hasn't been a great day of rehearsals of success, which probably is why I wanted to do this podcast episode anyway. So, what do I mean by that? It hasn't been a great day for me. I was training my puppy off and on over the last week to do some weave pulls in a sequence. His weave pulls have been great, but he has learned how much fun it is to go fast while you're doing weave pulls. His weave pulls just on their own were a really decent speed and he was having fun and I was thrilled with the performance. But he thought speed needed to be included in this game, like high, high levels of speed, which ultimately isn't bad, I guess. But with that incredible speed comes a lot of rehearsals of incompletion, of I'm going to skip some pulls. It's faster if I run alongside and pretend I'm weaving, of maybe jumping in in the middle, things he hasn't done for weeks. And so, just tonight as I was eating

dinner and I was reflecting back on some of my notes for my training, I'm like, you know what? I've got to go back and just have a solid two or three days of really clear understanding of how to be successful in the weave pulls. Rehearsals of success are really important when we're raising a puppy because what gets reinforced grows. So, it doesn't matter how much you're reinforcing your puppy for being calm at your side. If he's off running amok, jumping over all of your furniture, shredding your bed sheets, peeing where he wants, these are all rehearsals that if repeated enough, will get reinforced to the point where your good reinforcement for the odd behavior in your training session once every couple of days has no hope of impacting both the relationship that puppy has with you and the progress you would like to see in their behavior moving forward. So, your ultimate goal should be rehearsals of success. But let's balance that with some realistic expectations of a puppy. So, if you get a puppy from the breeder, they might be eight to 10 weeks old, maybe 12 weeks old, and there will be some established behaviors already. Some of them will be great if your breeder's done a great job putting effort into teaching things like sit to greet and have fun and enjoy the crate. But they also might be not so great if you have got this puppy from a big litter and the breeder didn't have time to spend with them. Or the puppy was ignored because the breeder was very busy and maybe it was the last puppy left or yada, yada, yada, whatever. It doesn't matter what you start with. What you have to say is, what do I have now? Do you have a behavior challenge? Like this student mentioned, my dog is afraid of other dogs. Because you have to balance your expectations and the progress you're going to see. And you have to manage that puppy's environment so that you mitigate the chance for them to choose inappropriate behavior like chewing on furniture or running across furniture if you don't want your puppy on your furniture. Which I don't think puppies should be on furniture anyway. Number one, they could, you know, have an accident on the furniture. Number two, puppies jumping off furniture just isn't safe. You know, whether you have your dogs on your furniture as they grow up, that's fine. Or if you want to pick your puppy up and hold them on your lap and then put them down. But puppies jumping on and off furniture, you potentially could injure their growth plates. So, not something I would recommend. So, rehearsals of success. We've got our training den. If you don't want your puppy

on the furniture, then you've got them in an X-pen. You play crate games with them. You've got a routine. So, the X-pen is going to be big enough that you can put enrichment games in there, fun food puzzles, things that they can figure out. Scenting games. Oh, that's so good. It tires puppies out. You don't have to take your puppy on a long walk on a 15-foot leash to tire them out. There's so much things you can do. Enrichment, engagement, scenting, and training. Training. So, fun games that you can play that engage the puppy's brain. But I would advise that these be done on a leash most of the time, depending on the age and the stage of the puppy, but they should be done on a leash so that you can rehearse success. If it's not on a leash, then the puppy is maybe coming in for one or two rehearsals of getting a cookie and then they're running off somewhere else. Now, if you're in a small training den, you are managing the environment that way. So, we've got our training den or we have a puppy on a leash. We are playing strategic games. If you're in Homeschool the Dog or Recallers, we're giving you those strategic games. If not, at the end, I'm going to give you something because I want all of you with a puppy or about to get a puppy to really set yourself up for success with that puppy so that you're not frustrated, which means chances are your puppy's not frustrated either. We need to set that puppy up for easy wins. So, let's get back to the 15-foot long line. If you have a puppy that likes to pick up garbage, which is not unusual, then they don't belong in a 15-foot long line. What I would do, we want to get that puppy out around other dogs, I would put the puppy in the car, drive somewhere where there might be dogs, open the window, you go stand outside the door and then feed the puppy when other dogs come by. Puppy ideally would be in a crate that's high enough up so that they can see what's going on. If you don't use a crate, then please at least have them in a seatbelt. If the puppy sees the dogs and gets anxious, some dogs can get protective of their car, but that's unusual for a puppy. Then maybe you're parked too close or you're not using high enough value reinforcement. So, start your socializing at a distance in the car. Then you don't have to worry about the puppy picking up things from the ground. Now, what we're going to do at home, you're going to go treat yourself to a cheeseburger or something from a fast food restaurant where you're going to get some wrappers and you're going to put them on the ground at home. And you're going to work just having

your dog in reinforcement zone at your side and feeding them, not walking near those wrappers, but they're in their environment. And if they try to bolt towards them, then you're going to back up even further. We want to teach the puppy in your house that garbage isn't to be picked up in your mouth. So, they're on a leash, you're giving them high value rewards, try to turn in a circle, a 360 degree circle, end your session, put the puppy away, then go and pick up the garbage. So, that's easy win number one. You had garbage in the environment while you were working with your puppy, yet the puppy didn't get a chance to go out and grab the garbage. We're not trying to walk the puppy by the garbage and test. We are saying things will be in your environment and they might even smell good, but you don't have to walk them by. Now, this student said to me that their puppy does know it's your choice and will ignore food dropped on the ground, but not garbage. So, let's start playing with garbage in the vicinity. Maybe just one piece to start. You can start with just a crumpled up piece of paper. You don't have to start with something smelly. Have a methodical approach to easy wins. Easy wins makes you feel good. Easy wins helps the puppy feel good, grows that puppy's confidence and grows your confidence in that puppy. All right, now let's talk about when you try to take something out of your puppy's mouth, they bite you. So, number one, that may indicate you've tried to take a lot of things out of your puppy's mouth and they're trying to guard it from you. And so, really invest your time in the bring me game. That is a game that teaches the puppy a cooperative retrieve. And so, anytime we have an adversarial relationship with a puppy over anything is not a good thing because everything is a learning opportunity for that puppy. What are they learning? They're learning. They're going to work harder to keep it away from you. They're learning. They're going to not let you see the treasures that they have. So, we don't want that. The bring me, put something in my hand is one of the first things I teach my puppies because I want them to know they can earn by bringing me things. That it's never going to be a fight. And if your puppy is resource guarding, then go to podcast episode number 82, where I share how to work through that resource guarding. So, what we're going to do, set your home environment up for success. We're going to not be taking that puppy out on a 15 foot long line. You're going to work on leash in your house, set the puppy up for small wins. And when you can work on leash,

just walking two steps in one direction in front of your house, turn around, walk in two steps, and the other direction. In those four steps, that puppy ideally would have got maybe five or six cookies. You're teaching the puppy that the environment isn't as exciting or interesting or doesn't pay as well as you do. Now go back in the house. We are setting that puppy up. So, one day, yeah, you can walk out where there's garbage on the grass and your puppy's not going to be interested in it. Because our ultimate goal is there's wildlife nearby and the puppy's not interested. If your puppy is more interested in garbage than you, they're for certain going to be more interested in wildlife. So, let's take this one hurdle at a time. Remembering, we want to grow confidence, increase cooperation, create calm, all the time working towards having a connected relationship with your puppy. It is possible if you look for small wins every day, engagement, enrichment, use your training den. Do not give the puppy free roam to the house. The puppy's going to be in an X-Pen or they're going to be playing engaging games with you, or they're going to be so tired, they're going to be sleeping in their crate. Now, for those of you who are thinking, well, where do I start? We have just revised our It's Your Choice Summit, and I would love for you to be amongst the first people to try it out. So, if you would like access to our free It's Your Choice Summit where you will learn this critical foundational training game, the step-by-step layers, and all the ways that I use it in everyday life, then click the link that you'll find in the show notes. And that will take you to joining the summit. You know, raising a puppy will always have surprises and possibly frustrations day-to-day. But it shouldn't be a frustrating event. Because remember, if you're frustrated, that puppy's frustrated too. And that should not be the way for any puppy to live. We want that puppy to live with clarity. We create clarity in the training games that we play with them. The training games that we play with them create a puppy who is engaged, who wants to work with us, and who ends up using their brain in a way that they're just exhausted. They'll sleep more and you get the time to get more done. All of these things are possible for anyone. And I would say the starting point for every puppy is It's Your Choice and our crate games online. And I'll put the link to that one in the show notes as well. I hope this makes sense. I hope for all of you with puppies, you feel better, that you're not alone, that we all get frustrated from

time to time. But when you're frustrated, think of who else may be frustrated and then work hard to bring clarity into your relationship with that puppy. I'll see you next time right here on Shaved by Dog.