개에게 규칙이 필요할까? #27

expectations? So, somebody, I asked my dog to sit, I just mean put your butt on the ground. All right. So, they can just put their butt on the ground, but their front feet can move and they can turn from side to side. They can spin in a circle because their butt is still on the ground. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. That's, I need them to sit and keep their butt on the ground and their front feet pointing in the right, in the same direction so that their head can be looking everywhere. So, criteria are your expectations. And the more criteria you put on a behavior, the more consistency you can see from that behavior from time to time to time. So, if sit means butt on the ground, front feet, hold still, and your head can look wherever you want, doesn't matter. Then you know, when you say the word sit, you're going to get the same thing every time with your dog. Now, if your criteria is sort of go in that position, but just kind of crouch, then you're not going to get the same behavior every time. So, the more criteria you have on a behavior, the more consistency you have on a behavior. The downside of that is the more criteria you have on a behavior, the more work it is for you to maintain that criteria. I want to suggest we look at the word criteria, not from our point of view, but from our dog's point of view. What does criteria mean to your dog? If I was to ask your dog, your criteria for a sit, what would your dog say? Well, I look around and there's nothing better to do than I can lay on the ground or sit or do what I want. I don't know. What is it? Here's the way I look at the word criteria. Criteria is defined by what brings my dog joy in this instance. And my job is to build up all the pieces I need to bring my dog joy in that setting. So, for example, if I ask my dog to sit at the start line in agility, and my dog would rather just go. I don't want them to think they have to sit. I want them to think, I want to sit. I get joy from sitting. How do we get that? There's four defining elements of how I get that joy in criteria for my dogs. WAC. W-A-C-C. WAC. I don't know if it's WAC. I don't know. You guys, you guys can make up your own. It did the letters just came together. So, the W is, it needs to be worth the dog's while. It needs to be worthwhile. If I ask my dog to sit and I'm in the kitchen, I might have like a piece of cheese in my hand. And so, there's no other distractions around. Hey, it's worth my while. I'm going to sit. Boom. My butt's hitting the ground. Yeah, I'll do it. I'll do

everything you want. If I take that same dog and I take them to like out in the woods and there's squirrels and rabbits and chipmunks, and I ask them to sit, it might not be worth their while because there's too many other good things going on. So, you might not get that sit. Does that mean it's impossible? My definition of bringing the dog joy to get a dog to sit out in the woods with all those distractions? No, it is possible, but you need to build it up layer by layer. Can a dog find joy sitting when there's squirrels around they want to chase? Absolutely. Just like my dogs can find joy in sitting at the start line in agility when there's nothing on this earth they'd rather do than run agility. It needs to be worth the dog's while. Whatever it is you're asking. Now, does that mean you always have to have a piece of cookie on you or their favorite toy? Absolutely not. That's what good dog training is about. But it needs to be worth, in your dog's mind, they've got to say, Hey, this is good. Criteria is currency between the dog and I. And they go, Yeah, I like it when you ask me to do something. It's great. W, worthwhile. Number two, the A, it needs to be achievable. What you're expecting of your dog, what you're asking of your dog is something that they are able to do. So, I couldn't take a dog off the street and expect them to be able to run an agility course flawlessly. That's not achievable for them. They've never seen any of the equipment. I would need to break all of that equipment down into small pieces, small skill sets. Teach them all the little elements of each skill set before they'd be able to run an entire agility course. So, is taking a dog like Tater Salad when he first came here, he didn't have the understanding of very much. And if he loved chipmunks, if we were to take him out in the backyard and ask him to sit, would that be achievable? Not likely. Because he really didn't understand what sit meant. And he loved to chase chipmunks. So, it needs to be achievable with the education your dog has at that point in time in the environment that you have put him in. This first C is your expectations need to be clear to the dog. They need to be black and white. There's an obvious, this is correct. And this is incorrect. It can't be, this is correct for now. Because here's the thing, sometime is any time to a dog. So, if you have a rule that your dog isn't allowed on the couch, then they can't be allowed on the couch sometime. And then other times you get disappointed or frustrated or angry because you've

just come in from a hike and they're muddy and they jump on the couch. Sometime is any time to a dog. Now, does that mean, oh, I should never let my dog on the couch? No, it just means you need to manage your expectations when your dog is muddy. If you want your dog on the furniture, have at it. Just don't give them the free will to come in when they're muddy and jump on the couch. You don't have the right to get mad. The currency of the criteria has been spent. You've said you're allowed on the furniture. I would like to have dogs on the furniture, but I understand I want clear criteria, so my dogs aren't allowed on the furniture. Okay. Sometime is any time to the dog. It needs to be black and white. I tell you what, a little pet peeve of mine, you're learning a lot about my pet peeves here on the podcast, is when somebody comes to my house and they start training my dog, which is a little cray cray. Why do you come to a professional dog trainer's house and start training their dog? So, they'll say things like, sit down to my dog. Those are two separate behaviors with two sets of criteria that are in complete opposition to each other. It would be like me asking you to, could you run over there and stand still right here, please? Well, those are, those are two different behaviors, Susan. Yeah, I know exactly. Sit and down are two different behaviors to my dog. Criteria needs to be clear. You will gain the dog's confidence. The dog will be able to achieve your expectations on a more broad basis in more locations and more environment, the more clear you are with those expectations. Now, what about if I have rules and my dog and I'm super clear with my dog, but somebody else in my family who lives with my dog doesn't have those same rules. That's not a perfect setup, but it's okay. So, my late husband, he didn't follow the same rules with the dogs that I did. And so, the dogs learned with him, they could keep testing. So, I'll, sometimes I have to sit at the door and sometimes I don't. They were constantly testing him. They didn't constantly test me because they knew criteria is the same. That criteria is currency. And our understanding is when I ask you to do something, you do it every single time. Now, he would get a little jealous. Well, why don't they listen to you? Especially because he was the one who fed them their dinner every day. And it had nothing to do about whether they liked me best. It had to do about the clarity to which I lived my life with my dogs. Brene Brown, I believe has said,

clarity is kind. You want to lead with utmost kindness with your dog, always be clear. And that leads me to the second C and that is consistency. You need to always consistently apply your criteria. It needs to be the same always. So, if you are the kind of person who comes in the house and lets your dog jump on you, Hey, hi, I'm back. Hi. Then when your 98-pound grandmother comes over and your 110-pound German Shepherd plastered her against the wall, you can't be upset. You can't get mad at the dog. Because the rules have to be consistently applied, whether it's your 98-pound grandmother, a toddler, or you. Sometime is any time to a dog. So, the criteria has got to be what is bringing my dog joy. Whatever it is I want to train my dog to do, whether it be retrieve a ball. Now it's obvious. The criteria can be very clear. You sit, you wait till I throw it. You go out when I tell you to get it. You bring it all the way back and you put it right in my hand. Why is that worthwhile? Because you get to do it again. Now, if your dog brings it back part way and spits it out and backs up and stares at you and you walk out and pick it up, you've made it worthwhile for them to only bring it back halfway. I'm a tad, maybe a tad more lazy than you are because I don't want the game of retrieve to be I retrieve part way and you retrieve part way. I want it to be you retrieve right to my hand. And so, I make it worthwhile. The currency of criteria between my dog and I is, you do this, you get that. Right? So, knowing your brain exactly what you want it to look like. Now, earlier today I was Googling, try this. This is kind of fun. Go into your browser and type in the words, how do I get my dog to? Don't put anything else and see what you come up with. So, I put those words and I got these sentences. Google will populate what the most type continuations of that sentence are. And so, I got, how do I get my dog to stop barking? How do I get my dog to stop barking at strangers? How do I get my dog to drink more water? How do I get my dog to stop biting? How do I get my dog to stop whining? Stop chewing his paws? Stop licking me. Do you see criteria that is worthwhile, achievable, clear, and consistent here? People are Googling, how do I get my dog to stop? Stop. That is not something that is criteria that you can create joy for your dog with. So, how do I get my dog to stop barking at strangers? How about, how do I get my dog to target my hip? And so, I will teach my dog when we're out walking, you see a stranger target my hip. That can earn you

worthwhile reinforcement. You can't be barking at a stranger when you're targeting my hip. Criteria, whatever it is you're looking to hope to transfer that knowledge to your dog, it needs to be clear. Now I'm not saying that every single challenge you have in dog training, you need to train. There's really three different approaches that you can take. You can choose to ignore some things and it might not hurt you. For example, if you have a little puppy, a little eight-week old puppy that maybe they get goofy and they start running around the house crazy. I might even enjoy that. I'm not going to try and train it or stop it because I'm pretty confident that as they grow up and we develop more of a bond and we, I give that dog more productive ways to use their energy and engaging games with me and long walks and games of retrieve. That, that running around crazy around my house is going to stop. So, that's a behavior I will ignore. Or I might redirect it by giving them a bone to chew on. You may choose to manage behaviors. So, how do I get my dog to stop raiding the garbage? Could be one of them. Now you could just manage that by putting the garbage on your counter every single time you leave the house. Or you could train your dog to ignore garbage cans. Right? So, you could ignore behaviors your dogs do. Now, if those behaviors are reinforcing, you can't ignore a dog getting into the garbage bin every day because it's reinforcing for them to get in there. They're going to find some treasures and they're going to keep trying it. So, you could ignore behaviors that are seemingly innocuous. You could manage them like the garbage can, or you could train them. And if you're going to train them, you're going to need criteria. And in my books, criteria is defined by what brings your dog joy. And I hope for all of you listening from now on, that's your criteria for your dog as well. I'll see you next time on Shaped by Dog. Of böylece Of böylece Of Thank you.